Stop Sextortion: Murray’s Story and a Wake-Up Call for Teens

 Imagine this: you’re online, just hanging out, and someone sends you a message. It seems harmless, maybe even friendly. Then things take a dark turn. This is the story of sextortion—a scam targeting teens—and how it tragically ended the life of 16-year-old Murray Dowey from Scotland.

Murray was a fun-loving, bright kid who loved life, but last year, scammers tricked him into sharing private pictures. They blackmailed him, threatening to share the images with his family and friends unless he gave in to their demands. The pressure was unbearable, and Murray felt there was no way out. His parents found him the next morning.

A Parent’s Plea

Murray’s parents, Ros and Mark, have spoken out to warn other teens. In a video message to the criminals behind sextortion, they said: “You’ve ended our son’s life. How would you feel if it was your brother or your child? It’s so cruel.”

They also called out social media companies, saying they aren’t doing enough to protect people from these scams. “The tools are there to stop this,” said Ros. “They’re just not using them.”

The Scammers’ World

Sextortion is big business, especially in places like Nigeria, where it’s carried out by groups nicknamed “yahoo boys.” A BBC investigation even spoke to one of these scammers. He described the scam as a “game,” where the goal is to catch “big fish” for more money.

When shown Murray’s story, the scammer admitted feeling bad. But feeling bad doesn’t undo the damage. Murray’s parents believe these scams thrive because tech companies won’t invest in stronger protections—it’s all about profits.

The Reality for Teens

Here’s the thing: Murray didn’t show any signs he was struggling. He went to his room, like any other day, and his parents didn’t realize anything was wrong until it was too late. That’s why it’s so important to talk about sextortion and what to do if it happens to you or someone you know.

A Message to Teens

Murray’s parents want you to know this: There is nothing worth taking your own life for. If you ever find yourself being targeted, stop. Put your phone down. Find someone you trust and tell them what’s happening. No matter how bad it seems, there’s help, and there’s a way out.

Sextortion doesn’t have to win. Campaigns like Fearless in Scotland are fighting back, teaching teens how to stay safe and where to get help. Remember, you’re not alone, and there’s no shame in asking for help.

What to Do if It Happens to You

If you’ve been targeted by sextortion, don’t panic. You’re not alone, and there’s help available. Here’s a list of resources in Malaysia where you can find support:

• Malaysian Police (PDRM): Dial 999 for emergencies or visit your nearest police station to file a report.
• Cyber999 (CyberSecurity Malaysia): Report online scams and get help at cyber999.my or call 1300-88-2999.
• Befrienders Malaysia: Feeling overwhelmed? Talk to someone who cares. Call 03-7627 2929 or chat online at www.befrienders.org.my.
• Talian Kasih 15999: For confidential support, dial 15999 or WhatsApp 019-261 5999.

You don’t have to go through this alone. Reach out to someone you trust, whether it’s a friend, teacher, parent, or one of these organizations. Help is just a call or a click away.

Let’s stop sextortion together. Stay smart, stay safe, and never let a scammer dim your light. Murray’s story is a heartbreaking reminder, but it’s also a call to action. You have the power to protect yourself and others. Don’t let the scammers win.

If you want to read more of this, head off to https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/cz6jywx37dlo for more